Monday, December 30, 2013

Christmas Morning

A few pictures from Christmas Day. The presents under the tree were sent by Grandma, Grandpa and Great-Grandma in the US. Solomiya got to open them on Christmas Eve while having a Skype call with them!

We went to our friend Clinton's for a Feliz Navidad inspired Christmas lunch: tacos and salsa. Amazing. I made flan for dessert.
No pictures as evidence, but we had a great time! We were able to meet 2 new Americans who were also there. They recently moved to Uzhorrod from Russia.

Solomiya really likes the Christmas tree with the lights and decorations! She keeps saying, "Tato buy me tee" (translation: Tato or Mike bought the tree for her) and "Me buy ball" (translation: I let her pick out some decorations at a store).

One of the awesome things about living here is that we have much more celebrating to do in the coming weeks: New Year, Christmas in January and Old New Year after that.





Christmas Tree

Last week, we went on an adventure to buy our Christmas tree at the bazaar. In the first picture, you can see the trees lined up along the sidewalk ready for sale.

The one we picked out was about 4 feet tall, very fresh and only cost 35r (about $4.30). The lady we bought it from tied it up and we walked it home- only 15 mins by foot/stroller.

You can also see Solomiya riding in our new stroller (pictured below). It works great on all of the "bumpy" sidewalks here. I'm being gentle when I describe them as bumpy- it's more like going 'off roading' in a Jeep when you have to walk somewhere with the stroller.
We needed to get a new, bigger stroller because our small, umbrella stroller has taken quite a beating over the past 2 years and it is not really appropriate for a tiny baby. So, since another little Hallenback will be joining us in May, we decided to invest in something better.
Where we live, a stroller is like another member of your family: your transportation; how you carry groceries home with a little kid; the place where your baby can sleep and be changed when you are away from home- quite essential. People take their strollers EVERYWHERE!
When we first arrived in Ukraine almost 2 years ago with a 5-month-old, people were shocked that we did not have a stroller. We just never used one in the US: the baby went into the carseat if we had to go anywhere and there were always clean places to change her away from home. But, we quickly realized that we could not survive without one, unless we wanted to carry Solomiya everywhere.

So this is our new stroller story.
And yes, we will be having the baby here in Uzhorrod. Why fly to the US and spend thousands of dollars when you can have your baby in a government hospital in a former Soviet country for a fraction of the cost ;)





Sunday, December 15, 2013

Please Pray for Ukraine

This is an excerpt from an email that Mike sent to our church in NY this past week:

 "We would like to ask you to please say a prayer this Sunday [today, December 15, 2013], for the country of Ukraine. Things here are at a historical, critical juncture. You may or may not have read stories in the news, but I will try to sum things up for you:

There's truly a revolution in progress and one which has been amazingly peaceful on the part of the protestors. I know that there have been a lot of people praying on the Maidan itself (that's the main square in Kyiv where the protestors have been camped out for weeks); there are numerous pastors as well as priests from the Ukrainian Catholic church, Roman Catholic and Orthodox churches standing right in the front of all the protestors. Our long-time friend Serhiy Baliuk has been there, too, speaking and praying. There are regular prayer services and a prayer tent.

Prayers are truly the order of the day... Prayers that provocateurs won't push the peaceful demonstrators into violence, that the authorities will use restraint in controlling the protestors and not send police with batons to beat them (as they did last Saturday), that the opposition politicians will actually come up with an alternative plan for the country (beyond getting rid of the current president and his cronies), that all involved will hear the voice of God to be humble, love their neighbors and overcome evil with good. This is a revolution which has caused so much unity among formerly apathetic and corruption-weary Ukrainians. There is great promise for the future of Ukraine in these events; may the spirit of justice and fairness (like that in God's heart) prevail over the spirit of rebellion. So far, it has prevailed among the protestors (thank God). Their leaders have reminded them again and again to remain peaceful in the face of riot police.
There is a spirit of joy, brotherhood and determination among the protestors. We have a number of friends who have been or are on the Maidan, joining the peaceful protests to show love of their country and their fellow countrymen. Although some Western news reports may portray the protestors as "anti-Russian", this is not their motivation; they are pro-Ukraine.

I'd like to encourage you to watch/show this short, two-minute video by a pastor in Kyiv, to give you a little flavor of things. It's very well done. http://vimeo.com/81788359#

We are safe, as are people throughout Ukraine. The ones who are at the biggest risk are the protestors in Kyiv. That being said, if something doesn't change on the part of the current government, the country is at risk of sliding into deep authoritarianism.

We love you and pray the best for you and your families this season. We couldn't be here without your willingness to risk your love and resources on our mission here!"

Wednesday, December 11, 2013

Change of Address

Hello all!

This is Mike writing to you, for once. We just wanted to let all of our friends and supporters know that our mailing address for financial support and other contact has changed. It is now:

 Changepoint Church
 260 Mill Street
 Poughkeepsie, New York 12601

This is not a very big change from a postal point of view, but is a significant one, nonetheless. It indicates that our supporting church in the U.S. has re-located to its new home on the other side of Poughkeepsie. (Or at least re-located its office). This move has been a long time in the making and we believe it bodes well for the future of Changepoint. Having recently purchased the former First Baptist Church building, right in the very heart of Poughkeepsie, work has been going on at a feverish pace for the last several months to repair and renovate this huge historic structure and make it into the new home of the Changepoint family. We wish Pastor Marlow and all of our friends at Changepoint all the best and are excited to one day see the fruit of all your hard work!

PS - Did you know that this coming January will mark the two-year anniversary of our move to Ukraine? On one hand, it seems like just a short time ago. On the other, it feels like we have lived here for much longer. Perhaps that's because our hearts were living here way before we actually packed up to go! Please stay tuned for information on  a special anniversary pizza lunch we will be holding at Changepoint in January. We'll be calling in by Skype to go into detail on what we've been up to and (most exciting for us!) answer your questions and just say "hi"!

Tuesday, December 3, 2013

Children's Hospital in Chop, Ukraine

Our friend, and fellow American, Jason, asked Mike to write a guest-post for his blog and give an update on the Children's Hospital in Chop. I thought I would also share it here as Mike is definitely a more eloquent writer than I am.


"My wife Annie and I are full-time missionaries, living in Uzhhorod, Ukraine. I've primarily been teaching English as a second language, playing in worship bands with musicians from a couple of churches, as well as casually mentoring a couple of young guys and occasionally preaching in churches. Annie is an Occupational Therapist and uses her considerable gifts in that field to help in the rehabilitation of disabled children, the elderly and others recovering from injuries. Although we have rather different talents and ministry focus, we are always looking for opportunities to serve together.
 
One opportunity presented itself earlier this year when Annie read on Facebook of a friend's visit to the abandoned babies' ward of a small children's hospital in the nearby town of Chop. That friend was Jason Wiser, who had made the visit in the company of some folks from Church of the Living God in Radvanka. Annie got in touch with Jason and made a visit to the hospital with Jason's wife, Lera, and Ernest Brugosh, youth leader of the Radvanka church. Her impressions were of a hospital that was functioning with a great deal less resources than what they needed. And, of course, there were the kids. Annie was surprised that they were all just lying in cribs in a single common room, when some of them were suffering from conditions that clearly warranted treatment in a neonatal intensive care unit. But, as anyone who has lived in Ukraine will tell you, such is life in the under-funded, under-staffed world of public health care. In this environment orphans, abandoned children and children of the poor are the ones who suffer most. The average American would simply be shocked and ask, "why?" and the average Ukrainian sadly shrug their shoulders in resignation. However, it's in these conditions that God's people - of any nation - are called to ask "how can we be Your hands in this place?"
 
Upon returning from a brief visit to family and friends in the US, we made it a priority to visit the children's hospital in Chop on a weekly basis. In the past four months since then, our leader on each trip has been our friend Ernest Brugosh. Most of the time it's been him, Annie, our 2 year-old daughter Solomiya and myself. Occasionally others have come, usually a friend of ours or another of the youth leaders from the Living God church in Radvanka. One of the great things about working with Ernest is seeing the way that he humbly and effectively works with the staff at the hospital. Prior to each trip, he telephones the head nurse, Hanna, to tell her that we'd like to come and to ask what we can bring. Usually it's packages of Pampers, baby wipes and some bananas. Other times, the needs have been more unusual (but not surprising when you realize the "shoestring" budget that this small hospital has to work with). They include portable fans for the sweltering abandoned babies' room, new mops and buckets, so that each of the rooms on the floor can have dedicated cleaning equipment, bulbs for the light fixtures and paper for the printer in the nurses' office. Other times, we have purchased medicine, nail clippers and thermometers. You might ask yourself why a hospital couldn't supply some of these basic needs itself. The answer (according to a friend who's a cardiologist in another village hospital in our region) is that each year, these government-funded hospitals are given an even tighter budget that they must work with for the calendar year. This means that doctors must supply their own stationery, pens, pencils and other office supplies and that they need to allocate the minimal funds they are given to the most-needed items in the hospital. When the end of the year rolls around, things like fans and mops - especially in an abandoned baby area - are low on the priority list.
 
Returning to our friend Ernest's winning ways with the staff, I need to say that before setting foot in the abandoned babies' room he always looks for the head nurse and talks with her to ask how she and the staff are doing. Hanna and her staff are always grateful for whatever we have brought them and freely update us on what's new with the kids, letting us go in - unsupervised - to play with and/or hold them. I firmly believe that his consistent politeness, respect and deference to the staff is what has opened the door for our regular visits.
 
Typically, there are three or four children in the room, ranging in age from two months to one six year-old, Larysa. Larysa has been there for as long as we've been visiting. Having been signed over to the state by her mother, she's in limbo. She's much too old to be with the infants and toddlers and should be in an orphanage for older kids. However, it seems that because she  has some developmental difficulties ("cognitive issues", in Annie's words), she can't be sent to a regular orphanage. Therefore, space must be found in an orphanage for special needs kids. It certainly doesn't help her physical or emotional development any to be stuck in a crib most of the day, with no kids to play with and only occasional trips to play outdoors. Annie has been able to do some special exercises with her and give her legs a massage, but some good old-fashioned running around outdoors would go a long way. Larysa instantly lights up when we enter the room and demands to be picked up, held and played with. One of our favourite activities is to lift her up so that she can watch people walking by on the street below. Sadly, for the last few weeks, she'd been the only one in the room, without even the company of the usual infants. Even so, we can tell that she's loved by the staff and we're sure that they spend time with her during the day.
 
The other "sojourners" in the small abandoned babies' room have included sick young babies left off by parents who were unable to care for them at home. Happily, some of these were eventually taken home by their parents upon regaining their health. The most heartbreaking cases we've encountered were the infants with hydrocephaly.  One was a two-month old little boy who was taken away from his parents and arrived severely malnourished due to their neglect. All we could do was pray for him as he laid in pain and cried in his crib; he was too weak and delicate to even pick up and hold. Amazingly, he survived two weeks in the hospital, and was sent to another hospital in the region, in hopes of receiving some sort of special treatment. Another boy with hydrocephaly lasted only a few weeks and passed away.
 
For the future, our hope is continue our regular visits to Chop, bringing supplies and playing with whichever kids happen to be there. After one visit, a friend of ours with plenty of experience volunteering at orphanages and other hospitals, has expressed a desire to come along on future visits. In any case, we'll always go in the company of our friend Ernest, to whom we are grateful for introducing us to a very special ministry."

Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Лифт не работает.

Our very exciting morning: Solomiya and I took a short walk to the bakery and small store next to our apartment building. It was a short walk because it is FREEZING today. I needed to stop at the ATM to get some cash for my Russian lesson later today, we needed to buy fresh bread and Solomiya and I decided it was a good day to buy some булочки. It directly translate as "buns", but is not quite like what you would think a bun is. There is a picture below: this is how they look at this particular bakery, but they come in all different shapes, sizes and fillings. They are oval-shaped breads with various fillings: potatoes, mushrooms or cabbage. And, they are super tasty! They cost 2,50r each, which is about 35 cents. Not a bad price. Solomiya wanted a slice of pizza (pictured below: yes, that is corn on top- which is usual for Ukraine). The pizza was 6r, about 75 cents.
We also went next door to a small store that has fresh bread delivered everyday. The bread here is AMAZING! In the US, we rarely ate bread, here- we eat it almost every day. This loaf cost 4,50r, about 60 cents.
When we got back inside our apartment building, we found that the elevator was not working. It's not really a big deal because we only live on the 4th floor. Actually, we technically live on the 3rd floor, but the 1st floor in the building has no apartments so it is not labeled as the 1st floor. The 2nd floor is labeled as the 1st floor. Hope that wasn't too confusing.
Solomiya did great and walked up every flight. She did have to take a few breaks and enjoyed posing as I took some photos of her.
I also included a picture of our elevator (can you tell what is written on the door?) and Solomiya opening our front door.

Mike is having a much more exciting morning. He drove the leaders of the local Jewish ministry to Mukachavo (about 45 mins away) to deliver supplies to some Jewish elders.

Later today, I have my 2nd Russian lesson. I have to leave about 45 mins early for it because I have to wait for the right bus, ride the bus into the center of town and then walk to my teacher's house. I had a great 1st lesson last week and I really like my new teacher! It feels good to be studying again.
After my lesson, I need to walk back to the center of town to a particular pharmacy and see if they were able to find/order a transfer tub bench for one of my ladies. Then, I need to walk to a medical clinic and clear up some information I could not understand on the phone. Communicating and understanding in Russian is difficult enough for me in person, but on the phone- it's almost impossible. Can you believe I did not understand what day of the week they were talking about???- that's like supposed to be the easiest part to understand. So, I'm going to go back in person and figure things out.

The sun is shining today, and even though it's super cold, it will be a great day for walking around Uzhhorod to get some things crossed off my list.















Wednesday, November 20, 2013

Follow-Up on 'Language Study'

In early October, I shared a sappy post about our current state in language learning. It ended with lamentations about not having enough time in our schedules to fit language study in. Since then, we have made some serious schedule changes in order to get back to where we need to be.
Mike started studying Ukrainian again in August- 4-5 days a week. When the English school began having classes again with the new school year, Mike cut down his Ukrainian lessons to 2 nights a week. He teaches 1 English class in the evening and 2 in the mornings during the week- this schedule has helped him have time for Ukrainian lessons and separate study/homework time during weekday evenings. He has a great teacher to work with and I have noticed a big improvement in his understanding and ability to speak Ukrainian (granted he did very well prior to this new teacher, but now he is even better!). I frequently use him as my translator ;)
After I saw Mike's improvement, I decided that I NEEDED to make a change- "being too busy" was no longer a valid excuse. It was a difficult decision, but I decided to cut some things out of my schedule for the next several months so I could focus on my Russian lessons. So, I have decided to stop going to the Children's Hospital in Uzhhorod- this leaves me with 2 days a week free (when Mike can hang out with Solomiya) for language study. There is a great team of people committed to going to the hospital every day of the week, so it was easier for me to decide to cut this out of my schedule. I will still join the team on the weekly visits to the Children's Hospital in Chop and I currently have 2 OT patients that I will continue to see.
I feel so strongly that my language ability is directly related to my success at making an impact on people's lives here- both through therapy and relationships. I do have a very dear friend here who has been traveling with me to see my patients and translate- but I know that if I spoke better, it would open up many new opportunities for me.
On Monday, I met with a new Russian teacher, Alyona! Another of my very dear friends here recommended this teacher and set up the meeting. I am looking forward to beginning at the end of this week and making some changes in my life!

In other news, we are heading to Hungary next week to track down a transfer tub bench and score some inexpensive meds for one of my ladies. And, I heard a rumor that there is a McDonald's in the city we are headed to. I really hope it's true... Granted, I love cooking and eating all of this natural, organic food that is high in vitamins- but sometimes you just need a Big Mac.



SRH

We have had some requests for new pictures of Solomiya (from her fan club).

The following include:
- riding her motorcycle
- modeling her sunglasses and pigtails
- driving us around town
- wearing my apron
- talking with her friend Anichka

What's really cool, is that since she turned 2, she has been speaking and using words that we understand a lot more: both in English and Ukrainian.
We also see that she understands very well when she is spoken to in Ukrainian. Every time she spends time with people who are only speaking in Ukrainian, she will begin to add a new word to her vocabulary. Lately, she has begun saying 'doll' in Ukrainian- with much better pronounciation than me! 'Ляльки'
It is pretty amazing that she has learned Ukrainian so easily. She will probably also learn some other languages while we live here- everyday we hear English, Ukrainian, Transcarpathian, Russian, Hungarian- and sometimes Slovakian and Polish.

Next spring, we will begin sending her to 'kindergarten'. Kindergarten, or Children's Garden (direct translation) is for children starting at age 2 and going through 6 or 7 years old. It is similar to pre-school in the US. Children learn how to behave in a classroom setting, interact and play with other children and learn basic skills that will prepare them for 1st Form in regular school.
Last year, we registered her at 3 different kindergartens: our friends recommended this so that we could spend time figuring out which one we liked best. Apparently, it is very common for parents to register their children when they are like 2-6 months old- or even before they are born! So we were a little late...
Two of the kindergartens are within a 5 minute walk from our apartment, which is nice. When we registered Solomiya last year, our friend went with me to translate. At the first school, the director was very haughty-taughty, explaining that I should have registered S earlier, that they had no room and clearly looking me up and down- amazed that I thought they would even consider taking her (found out later that this particular kindergarten was a bit more prestigious and had an unofficial relationship with a popular private school across the street). So- my friend was translating all of this to me- speaking English obviously- and the director rather quickly changed her mind. "Oh! You are Americans?! We would love to register your daughter here. Let's do it right now!".
This was a big turn-off for me.
At the second school, the director was very kind and helpful before she found out we were Americans- I'm kinda leaning towards this school...
So, next Spring we will begin a new adventure: Дитячий садок.














Tuesday, October 22, 2013

October News

The most exciting new news is that Mike has started teaching again this week. The advanced class at the English school had been postponed due to a lack of students that were ready for that level. In the past few weeks, the school had inquiries from 4 students who fit in this level, so classes began this week! This will be Mike's third time teaching the advanced level students.
Mike continues to co-lead the weekly conversational English group at the school, has Ukrainian lessons two evenings a week, band practice twice during the week, plays keyboard at the Friday night service at our church from 8:30pm to 12:30am...
He does all this AND hangs out with Solomiya while I do OT 2 full days a week, drives everyone to Chop on Wednesdays and is a popular baby holder there at the hospital.
Also, he is occassionaly asked to speak at other churches on the weekends.
In addition to all of this, he is thinking of starting an English language bible study based on Francis Chan's book, 'Crazy Love'.
Superman.

Over the weekend, he also became an excellent mushroom hunter.







Mushroom Hunting

Our friend, Ira, invited us to her village to go mushroom hunting/gathering in the woods- a favorite Ukrainian activity.
She showed us which mushrooms were good, bad, poisonous, not edible or just interesting to look at.
Beautiful day! We feel so blessed to live in such a beautiful area of Transcarpathia!




















Children's Hospital in Chop

The nurses and doctor all seemed to be in very good moods today! They actually let us hold and hang-out with the kid/baby for maybe half an hour today! That was a first.
They have only 2 kids currently: Larisa is 6-years-old and Artom is a year and a half old.
The staff is working on getting Larisa into an orphanage close-by for kids with special needs.
I didn't understand Artom's whole story, but he was definitely not feeling well and does not look his age. He looks way younger- maybe like a 10-month-old. He loved being held. Ernest was his favorite.
We brought them diapers today and also some vitamins and medication that the nurse had asked for.












Tuesday, October 1, 2013

Thoughts on language study...

I remember a few years ago, we had some friends who were getting ready to move to Africa. Before they left, the organization they were working with sent them to a different country, on a completely different continent, for maybe a year, to focus on learning the language. The main language of this country was also one of the main languages of the country in Africa that they would soon be calling home. I remember thinking at the time, "Why not just go straight to Africa? Why waste time in another culture?". I was just curious- not disgruntled or anything.
Well- many years later and living in another culture/country myself- now I COMPLETELY understand! Now, I see the wisdom and benefits in this kind of decision. Now, I wish we had done the same thing. (Though, I'm not sure where we would have gone to learn Ukrainian- Brooklyn?)
I understand now that when you do language study in another city/country, etc..., you can give 100% of your time and energy and mental capacity to learning the language. When you do the language study in the same place where you will be living, building relationships, working, volunteering- so many other things begin to swallow up your time and learning the language becomes the last thing on your list.
Yes- people warned us of this before we moved to Ukraine, but we thought we had it under control. We would find tutors right away, we would only focus on language study, we would not get sucked into doing everything else except learning the language.
No- it did not work.
So here I sit, brooding over the fact that I speak Russian like a 2 year-old after living here for almost 2 years.
Maybe it's not that bad- but it feels like it.

Whenever I had a new potential patient in the past, I would always take a translator with me to the first meeting. This way, I could understand exactly what was going on- no mistakes. After the initial interview/assessments/testing, I would just go by myself. It wasn't too bad- sometimes a family member spoke a little English and it helped, but usually I just used my limited Russian vocabulary, a dictionary and a lot of charades to get through the therapy sessions. If something serious came up, a question I did not understand, I always got help from a native speaker. And- thanks be to God- it has always gone very well, and people have gotten better, and they have become more independent and have gotten their lives back.
But- I'm tired of this. I'm tired of speaking crappy Russian (and any Ukrainian phrases I remember from listening to Mike). I really want to speak better, but guess what? I have no time.
So the moral of this story is: if you plan on moving to another country, learn the language first.

Wednesday, September 18, 2013

Lviv: 3.0

More sights in the city, including the opera house; it's not a good idea to run in front of a train; followed by -heading home-...